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Sep 10Liked by Sebene Selassie

What genius magic is Kening Zhu? Thank you for recommending them. ๐Ÿฉต Iโ€™ve been contemplating a new portal creation for a while nowโ€ฆ Your new site looks great, Sebene!

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Yay! Kening is amazing. And thank you, I love it! ๐Ÿ˜ป

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Also โ€” โ€œmindfulness is a misnomerโ€ ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฝ

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So inspiring! What website platform do you use? Podia?

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Aug 29Liked by Sebene Selassie

Writing postcards tomorrow. Appreciating Rumi right now (starting my day with The Guest House). The reminder to make space for me seems to be coming from many interactions in my life. Thank you for the reminder. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Thanks for reading Melody. And if you havenโ€™t checked it out, โ€œGoldโ€ really is the best Rumi translation Iโ€™ve ever encountered and she is set to have a new book out soon too. ๐Ÿ’›โญ๏ธ๐Ÿ’›

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Will do, and thanks for the link to bookshop.org. I'll be sharing this link out!

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Aug 27Liked by Sebene Selassie

Yes. Whenever I get stuck in the well-worn grooves of my brain- I try to remind myself of this - the system stinks bad like the bucket of dog poop at the shelter. Practically knocks your nose off your face.

Thank you for this invaluable reminder. Holding space for myself to be embodied in my Mal-ness and thatโ€™s good enough.

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We could all practice some Mal-ness (but substitute our names of course, though Mal-ness IS the coolest!). xox

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Aug 27Liked by Sebene Selassie

Not blushing. Ok, sort of blushing. ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป

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Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

Love it. To know that the system stinks is not to despair or relinquish hope, but to be clear-eyed and not identify with this cause of suffering that affects us all. Kindness = Febreze. An air freshener amid the stink.

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Haha. Love it! Febreze for freedom!! Thanks for sharing Andy. xox

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Aug 26ยทedited Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

Sebene, I'm really looking forward to Make Sacred Space--and you're so rightโ€“the system stinks! (And thank you for reading and linking to my essayโ€“it makes me so happy that you read it this way.)

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Thanks for writing it Maud. So powerful and important. xox

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Thank you for your beautiful insights and words.

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Thanks for reading Pooja. ๐Ÿ’“

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Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

the systems stink... indeed!!! what a valuable addition to self compassion work! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™... mind if i maybe use this as well sometimes?

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Please! Spread the news! ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’“

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Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿค—... will do! ๐Ÿ™

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Aug 26ยทedited Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

Such a big fan girl. Love your new website, your musings and you!

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Doris!! Thank you and so good to see you here. โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜˜โค๏ธ

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Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

I just want to say I love these notes. Thank you

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๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ž

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First timer, that wealth graphic. ๐Ÿคฌ Just told my husband I wasnโ€™t so sure about starting the week in such an existentially aggravated state. ๐Ÿ˜†

Congrats on your new and completely beautiful site, Selene, and thanks for the Monday kick in the pantsโ€”appreciate you!!!

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Thank you and thanks for being here Bree! ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’›

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My eyebrows still havenโ€™t left my hairline after reading that article about hormone therapy for evangelical Christians. The cognitive dissonance and mental gymnastics they must go through to justify their use of hormone therapy to confirm their gender while actively denying trans and nonbinary people the same right are baffling.

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Right!? So bananas and pernicious! ๐Ÿ˜ก

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Aug 26Liked by Sebene Selassie

I really admire Kristen Neff's work. And I really love your addition of THE SYSTEM STINKS as an addition to her framework! This is going to be immediately useful. Like today kind of useful. Thank you!โœจ๏ธ๐ŸŒ›โœจ๏ธ

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Glad it resonates KP. ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“

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Same! And to your point, Selene, on feeling like โ€˜I canโ€™t even effect change in my own little life let alone across the country and around the globe.โ€™ The size of these damn boats we need to somehow 180โ€ฆ and/also, only affects our strategy, not the crucial need to turn them, right? โ†ช๏ธโœจ

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๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’“

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